闪亮的日子

 

a touching love story without a fairy-tale ending, but still funny and happy, the boy plays the vulnerable role this time which I think is the success of the movie, however, what he has had been through tells the feelings that works on both sexes too i suppose.

 

sometimes, you think you would never ever get over the feeling that you have felt for that particular person, and the whole world has gong down to the hell with you. but, don't try to do anything stupid, just wait for the wake up moment comes along, either short or long though, you will be feeling completely released and be able to move on again.

 

and then, you realize, believe it or not, it's only about the love and having loved, that matters!

 

 

the most important things are the hardest to say, they are the things you get ashamed of, because words diminish them...........................................

 

when the secret stays locked within not for want of a teller but for want of an understanding ear.

 

stephen king

 

years ago, I had a thought that if I would get married in the future, I would choose the date of the 9th of the 9th of 2009, it sounded like a real special day and would never get forgotten.

 

then, I was presented at a marriage registration yestoday, signed my signature on a pair of legal marriage certification.................................................

for one of my best friends in NZ

and as their support person

and acturally, the groom's best man girl.

 

what an accomplishment! Happy marriage, my dear Tom and Christina.

 

I have also learnt a beautiful saying at the place where they are living, which has been on the fridge door for a long time

 

"God put me on earth to accomplish a certain amount of number things, now I am far behind so I will never die"

 

hahaha..............................

 

甚摸都能变,变不了的是经历,表面上应付的是现实,心里惦记的还是纯真年代的那些事儿. 岁数大了的人都好(四声)称见识的事儿多,文明点儿的词儿叫阅历. 这一阅一历的就把人带到八百条不同的道儿上去,更有甚者,差上个十万八千里的也有.

 

感慨吗,甭忙,都还跟道儿上飘呢,你忙你的,我烦我的,谁都没闲着.凑到一块儿唠唠(四声),说来说去还是那点儿事儿,可是不嫌烦.兴许岁数还真是大了.

 

煽情的事儿是完全耻于外露的,可是那生动的面孔们,怎摸就如此的招人待见!

 

来日方长,哼,说的好听,多(三声)长就到来日了,明儿行不!

 

岁数大了的人不兴动不动就眼眶发酸了啊!

 

都好好儿的就行了!

 

Somehow, we have to believe that, every now and then, we come across things that we would never expect, or, we get to kown someone who we have no idea they would be coming into our lives. like lao zheng met Gaby. or, in another word, a Chinese woman met a German woman.

 

Chances are, out of 99% of possibility, they would live in completely seperate lives and not even know the existence of each other. One is a traditional Chinese woman who didn't have an opportunity holding a degree qualification and has spent most of her life doing physical works for living as she has to. Whereas the other one grow up listening to the beatles and has achieved her doctoral degree to be an uni lecturer in the major of media arts.

However, there was a me, who was against lao zheng's wishes and decided coming to nz, and has been living with Gaby for about two and half years. So there you are. connection bridged!

 

well, having said so, they do have things in common:

they are at similar age.

they both have two children.

their childern don't listen to them.

although they both admit that they have good kids

they both have lots of worries.

they both have good friends.

they both cook nice food.

they both have a grandson.

they can both be emotional sometimes.

they have both been through some harsh period when they were young.